Symbols of Meaning, Not Convention
Love doesn’t look the same for everyone and neither should the rings that represent it. Today’s engagement rings are no longer bound by rules. They’re chosen for meaning, for individuality, and for the quiet confidence of two people (or one) choosing their own path.
At Bianca Jones Jewellery, we design Icons as modern talismans of commitment, whether that’s to another person, to a new chapter, or to yourself.
What Is an Alternative Engagement Ring?
An alternative engagement ring steps outside tradition. It may feature a different gemstone, an unconventional shape, or a story that’s more personal than polished.
Instead of saying “this is how it’s done,” it asks:
“What matters most to you?”
Alternative rings are not about rebellion, they’re about alignment. They honour the meaning of commitment, but redefine its form.
Explore the Icons Collection — rings of meaning, made to be lived in.
Why Choose an Alternative Engagement Ring?
Because love is more than ceremony — it’s story.
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Meaning over material: Choose a stone that speaks to your values — aquamarine for renewal, sapphire for devotion, emerald for growth.
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Personal craftsmanship: Each Icon is made to order in solid gold, designed to last a lifetime without losing its soul.
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Sustainability: Recycled gold and responsibly sourced gemstones mean your love story leaves a lighter footprint.
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Individuality: No two Icons are identical — each is carved with intention, finished by hand, and meant to feel like yours alone.
Read more about Meaningful Gemstones and the stories behind each stone.
Can a Coloured Gemstone Be an Engagement Ring?
Absolutely. Before diamonds became standard, coloured gemstones were the classic choice, chosen for symbolism, not status.
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Sapphire represents faith and devotion.
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Emerald speaks of truth, love, and steady growth.
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Aquamarine embodies clarity and courage.
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Tourmaline celebrates balance and transformation.
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Opal symbolises intuition and creative energy.
Each one tells a story — and that story is what makes a ring meaningful.
Explore Modern Engagement Rings in Colour
Which Metals Are Best for Alternative Engagement Rings?
All of our Icons are handcrafted in solid 9ct or 18ct gold, never plated.
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Yellow gold glows warm and timeless — perfect for vintage souls.
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White gold feels modern, bright, and balanced.
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Rose gold adds a blush tone that flatters every skin tone.
Each is chosen for strength, symbolism, and lasting beauty — because an engagement ring should feel like home on your hand.
Learn more about metals in Materials & Gold Trust
Can You Buy Yourself an Engagement Ring?
Yes, and more and more people do. Self-purchased rings are acts of recognition: marking milestones, independence, or transformation. They’re not about waiting for permission, but about honouring the love and courage within yourself.
Read our guide: Can You Buy Yourself an Engagement Ring?
Our Modern Icons
Each Icon is a chapter in our story of modern devotion:
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Horizon — for new beginnings.
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Equinox — for balance and change.
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Axis — for strength and alignment.
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Lyra — for love and connection.
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Celeste — for intuition and light.
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Toujours — for loyalty and the promise of always.
Designed as meaningful talismans, they transcend tradition, the perfect engagement or self-purchase rings for those who want more than sparkle.
A ring is more than a proposal, it’s a promise. To love, to grow, to remember, to begin again. Whether chosen for a partner or for yourself, may it always mean more than “yes“.
